Friday, May 27, 2011

What we learned in Kindergarten

 Robert Fulghum is a wonderful American writer. He has had a varied career, ditch digger, newspaper carrier, cowboy and Unitarian parish minister. He is a sculptor and a painter. He sings and plays guitar. But above all he is an extremely talented author. This piece was my first introduction to his writings. I had it on the wall of my classroom for many years.

(a guide for Global Leadership)

All I really need to know about how to live and what to do and how to be I learned in kindergarten. Wisdom was not at the top of the graduate school mountain, but there in the sand pile at school.
These are the things I learned:
  • Share everything.                                
  • Play fair.
  • Don't hit people.
  • Put things back where you found them.
  • Clean up your own mess.
  • Don't take things that aren't yours.
  • Say you're sorry when you hurt somebody.
  • Wash your hands before you eat.
  • Flush.
  • Warm cookies and cold milk are good for you.
  • Live a balanced life - learn some and think some and draw and paint and sing and dance and play and work every day some.
  • Take a nap every afternoon.
  • When you go out in the world, watch out for traffic, hold hands and stick together.
  • Be aware of wonder. Remember the little seed in the Styrofoam cup: the roots go down and the plant goes up and nobody really knows how or why, but we are all like that.
  • Goldfish and hamsters and white mice and even the little seed in the Styrofoam cup - they all die. So do we.
  • And then remember the Dick-and-Jane books and the first word you learned - the biggest word of all - LOOK.

Everything you need to know is in there somewhere. The Golden Rule and love and basic sanitation. Ecology and politics and equality and sane living.

Take any one of those items and extrapolate it into sophisticated adult terms and apply it to your family life or your work or government or your world and it holds true and clear and firm. 

Think what a better world it would be if we all - the whole world - had cookies and milk at about 3 o'clock in the afternoon and then lay down with our blankies for a nap. Or if all governments had as a basic policy to always put things back where they found them and to clean up their own mess.

And it is still true, no matter how old you are you are, when you go out in the world, it is best to hold hands and stick together. - Robert Fulghum.

This is a link to his website where you will find his journal. It is worth dropping by.
Robert Fulghum


  1. Thanks for sharing!
    It's all truth, but do we remember that?

  2. This post is ABSOLUTELY so SPOT ON that I am going to go share it everywhere right now! Then I am going to have some cookies and milk and lay down and take a nap.

    Thanks for such a wonderful post (and reminder) Mary.

    Now if I can just teach the grandkids to flush.

    ~cath xo
    @jonesbabie on Twitter


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